You’re so spot on! All the advice like that does so much more harm than good.

I still have empathy for how my ex became a narcissist through his harrowing upbringing, but it’s not my job to heal and I couldn’t (I tried for a decade before understanding this)… the best advice is to ‘get the fuck out to save yourself while you still can!’

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