Kinksplaining with Ena

You Want Me to Stuff How Many Sharpies up My What-Now???

What’s up with hole-stretching and why are some people into that?

Ena Dahl
Published in
7 min readApr 12, 2023

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Wonder what a photo of a bunch of Sharpies is doing illustrating an article about sex and kink? Read on. Photo by Nihal Demirci Erenay via Unsplash

Dear Ena,
I connected with someone who said he’s into stretching a partner’s holes with Sharpie markers and it kinda weirded me out. What’s up with that? And why Sharpies?
Best, Julia

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Ena Dahl
Essensually Ena

Multidisciplinary creatrix; conscious kink & sensuality coach, educator, author, energy worker & rope (s)witch.