You don't, and you're spot on! There must be someone out there who respond to it, but I'm doubtful…

Sadly, I think it leaves a lot of guys feeling bitter and even vengeful. They try "so hard" (aka messaging so many) and get nothing—then blame others instead of looking at themselves.

I agree with your perspective on paid companionship. I also find that having a solid group of sex positive friends who know and understand how to separate friendship and sex—as in, we can share sexual and intimate experiences and still be totally 'casual' with each other later—to be a very good option! Obviously, the demographic where I am makes that easier than many other places…

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