I never used the term sex box, but this is exactly what happened to me when I left my dysfunctional marriage and got back in touch with my sensuality and sexuality. My ‘sex box’ was had been shut for so long it was basically overflowing for the first bit, and it took some time to create balance. I fully relate to the feeling of now being a sexual being, which doesn’t mean being DTF at all times and places, just that there’s no separation between that part of me and the rest: they flow seamlessly together like all other parts of life!
Thank you! You put it all so clear and easy to comprehend!