Yes, definitely, there can be male ejaculation with and without orgasm and orgasm with and without ejaculation. I’ve seen both.

Women can also experience these combinations. (I have experienced them too). I’ve had really flat orgasms and ones where I have to be retrieved from another space/time after.

The cases of multi-orgasmic women experiencing earth-shattering orgasms while the men experience lackluster ones certainly happen as well. Not sure if I’d call it an ‘orgasm-gap’ though…? But here too, isn’t it also about communication no? Earth-shattering orgasms for anyone take effort, dedication and sometimes a lot of time, and I’d say they’re worth it, but we have to work together—without the shame, guilt, anger, etc.

I can’t help but sense a bit of resentment… do you feel dispossessed somehow? I’d love to discuss this more, or maybe hear your perspective in writing!

Thank you, as always for reading and responding!

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