THIS. IS. AMAZING!
You know how dear this topic is to me too, but I struggle to speak about as much as I’d like to. You say it all, and beautifully and with so much clarity as always.
You know I have no problem seeing myself as both and accepting pleasure. I struggle only with the guilt and judging myself through the eyes of ‘the other’ (or patriarchy). I despise it and disagree with it, yet feel it almost impossible to escape.
Thank you for writing this! ❤️