Oh, honey! I did move on. Immediately.

—That’s (partially) why I told the guy I didn’t want him sleeping in my bed… :D

Deciding that you don’t want to go through with a sex act is not the same as deciding to be selfish in bed and not care about the pleasure of your partner. Plus, deciding not to go through with intercourse (or anything in bed) is anyone’s right, at any time. Men or women. I don’t get your comparison here.

Further, how was I a bitch for telling him to leave? Enlighten me, please!

Also, are you saying that just because a woman isn’t interested in a traditional relationship, she shouldn’t care about or expect pleasure from her partner? This sounds like some backward misogynistic rhetoric to me. Are you saying we’re only worthy of good sex when we’re acting like “good girls” (who don’t fuck on the first date)?

Lastly, the thing is, I’m a writer, so instead of “chalking it up”, I take my experiences—good or bad—and use them to inspire pieces that might inspire others in some way.

Thank you for reading!

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