My dearest Yael! Never for a second did I feel shamed by what you wrote, so please don’t apologize! You and Elle just gave me a good in to write this story which has actually been sitting as a barely started draft forever, but felt out of context and a bit gratuitous, so thank you!
I get your point about porn and I really think the second guy in my story had just picked up some crappy porn move without placing it into context. I simply wanted to write about it in two different contexts and I really think so many sex acts can be looked at this way… I’ve had several acts done with/by different intentions/scenarios/people and felt completely different depending on all these factors. Spitting and all kinds of other things can be both amazing and horrendous depending…
Anyway, you could never shame me my sharing your honest interpretation and opinion of something!
Love you so much ❤️