I totally agree that this is how it should be. I’m not for keeping count and in a trusted relationship it’s a bit different than in a casual situation. There’s room for mixing things up, for one partner being selfish at times. There are times for just giving or just receiving, or for mixing it up—For quickies before work or unrequited morning cunnilingus.
I’m glad you’re healing past sexual trauma and have found someone like your partner!
Thank you for reading and responding!