I couldn’t agree more with everything you’re writing! All of this is very close to me… I also agree that by following, you’ve already given consent, and, unless it comes completely out of the blue it shouldn’t be shocking.
I do agree that we can simply unfollow… still, it really hurt last year when my sister unfollowed my Instagram account because I was “too much” for her and she didn’t need to see that… Clearly we all have different boundaries and sensitivities in this way.
Btw, I love Genderless Nipples on Instagram…have you seen it? An account with pictures of isolated nipples only, it’s a big ‘fuck you’ to censorship as they can’t be taken down since it’s not clear whether the nipples are male or female…