I believe that whatever you want and feel is always ok, as long as you do your best to be honest with yourself and the people you get involved with.
I felt really guilty after I broke things off with the woman I was with because she definitely wanted a lot more, and for a while, I thought I did too. But I was straight out of an 11 year long [insane] relationship, and just starting to really figure myself out. I still feel bad because she ended up incredibly hurt, but I couldn’t have really known then.
Anyway, I’ve learned a lot more about what I want, and I’m way more clear and also more cautious not to set any expectations I can’t live up to. If you know that you only want something sexual, and are clear about that from the get-go, then go get it :) … I think many bisexual women feel the same way anyway.
Hmmm, this is giving me ideas for things to write about too!