Great point and piece!

There’s a difference though between staring and looking, and between admiring and objectifying. I believe that women and men, when dressed up (or down), like to feel admired. I admire women all the time and tell other women that they’re beautiful often, and I won’t feel offended if anyone does the same — it feels great!

Getting gawked at, catcalled or talking with someone who talks back to your boobs only is different than someone saying, “wow, you look amazing in that tank top” and then sees, and talks to the person behind…