Dear Paul!

You definitely are not thick headed! I don't know how far you are out of your relationship, but it has taken me over the course of 3,5 years out plus the 11 years in an abusive relationship before that to wrap my head around all of these things—and yet they are still unfolding.

Be well and take care. It takes time, and it is also somehow a beautiful process of unraveling <3

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