Ena Dahl
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Isn’t that a sex thing? asked a high school friend when I showed her pictures from a recent Shibari performance.

— You don’t have sex on stage, do you? she continued before I had a chance to respond.

— No, no, it is an erotic art form, but that doesn’t…

Photo/collaboration with Jay S. Laffat

Every single cell in the human body replaces itself over a period of seven years. That means there’s not even the smallest part of you now that was part of you seven years ago.

— Steven Hall

It’s been seven years and six weeks since I married the man I…

Regular Newsletter | Updated 25.10.2021

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Hi there! First, I want to thank you so much for being here—I appreciate you immensely.

About me

I’ve been a storyteller of sorts my whole life. Starting as a graphic designer, I moved into creative/art direction, set dressing, event styling, and more. …

Photo: Directed by author / Photography and edit by Jay S Laffat

In the words of my favorite erotica writer Anais Nin: “We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.” And what better part to relive than our sex-lives?

I do love writing about sex and sexuality, but it wasn’t until I sat down to complete this list…

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Over the last year, I’ve written many stories about my experiences in a relationship with a verbally abusive narcissist, as well as my process of healing and dealing with the aftermath.

Through this process, I’ve connected with many who share similar experiences, in search of resources to make sense of…

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Mutual masturbation, as the name implies, refers to the act of masturbating with someone else. While partnered solo-play might sound contradictory, this inclusive, accessible, and most of all fun, activity deserves a place on everyone’s sexual menu!

There’s a second definition of partnered solo-play which involves manually stimulating each other…

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While it’s a misconception that they stem directly from our traumas, kinks can be used as tools to process them, as well as internalized shame, guilt, and other negative experiences.

By creating scenarios that either exaggerate or counteract them, we can utilize our kinks to face our fears. Bondage, for…

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Sexting is, as the name implies, where sex and texting converge, involving any exchange of words and/or images sent through technology.

Just like dirty talking, good sexting takes practice, and, not to mention, a fair share of confidence. Translating our sultry thoughts and fantasies into cohesive sentences, that also arouse…

Ena Dahl

Multidimensional creatrix & muse seeking to unite sexuality & spirituality, instigate alchemical healing & ignite the wild (wo)man | enadahl.com

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